Wednesday, February 21, 2024


A memorable proposal destination - Paris
 

Valentine’s Day was last week, but we just can’t pass up a good romantic travel story. This week, we have two, thanks to CNN Travel.

            On September 3, 1971, Linda Ford stepped into the arrivals lounge at JFK International Airport in New York, suitcase in hand. She was 24 and for the first time was journeying outside Europe. She knew absolutely nobody in the entire U.S., and was about to start a year’s teaching post at City University of New York. The transatlantic flight she’d just finished was the longest she’d ever taken. She was “rather weary,” she remembered recently. There was someone waiting for her, she hoped—George Porter, a friend of a friend, who’d agreed to meet her flight. Linda had exchanged a couple of letters with him, and she’d told him exactly what she would be wearing upon arrival. “I’ll wear a pink and white top, paired with beige-colored trousers,” she wrote. His reply: “I have absolutely no idea what I’ll be wearing.”

            She scanned the lounge, noticing two men who were looking right at her. One was tall, dark-haired, with a smile below his mustache. The other was a dashing fellow in an Air France uniform. The dark-haired man approached, and in a Southern accent he asked, “Are you Linda Dean?” The second man also said hello. He had a French accent. She remembered feeling she was in “a rather strange position of arriving at a very busy airport, in a country I’d never visited before, and being met by not just one, but two very nice young men.”

            The tall guy in civilian clothes was George. The Air France guy was Jean-Claude, another friend of a friend, who was also there to meet Linda. It turned out he was married to the cousin of a girl Linda had known in Paris from her recent time as a postgraduate student. The Frenchman graciously bowed out, leaving Linda with George.

            You can guess how this turned out. George, an architect who’d grown up in Arkansas, and Linda, the historian-in-training from southern England, married in 1972, shortly before her one-year work visa was due to expire. They had a daughter in 1975, and four years later moved to her English village, where they live to this day, coming up on their 52nd anniversary. George says he sometimes thinks of what might’ve happened had he showed up at that arrivals lounge after the Frenchman. “Jean-Claude was very pleasant,” he told CNN Travel, “but I was the one who ended up with her.”

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            We noted last week that Paris is one of the top romantic destinations in the world. How many people travel there and become engaged? Quite a few: about 36,000 every year, according to proposal-planning marketplace Proposal Paris. Like so many things post-pandemic, Paris engagement trips are booming, up 30% since 2021. Kiss Me Paris organized nearly 500 proposals last year. The American wedding-planner site The Knot found that the number of U.S. citizens proposing abroad is now higher than pre-Covid levels.

            Some proposals take place rather quietly, at a restaurant table or in a hotel room, but many others are outside, in the shadow of the Eiffel Tower or alongside the Seine. France’s National Center of Cinematography found that 1 in 10 tourists surveyed decided to travel to Paris after seeing the city on TV or in the movies. For a lot of people contemplating a proposal of marriage, seeing Paris on the screen clinches the deal.

            But dropping to one knee in front of the Eiffel Tower sometimes isn’t quite enough. One event planner told CNN that a client wanted his face beamed onto the Tower itself as part of his proposal to his girlfriend. The planner tried her best, but after a series of denials, she did the next best thing: hiring Disneyland Paris just for the couple.

            There are companies who will do just about whatever the client wants, from “Mission: Impossible”-themed quests to dance flash mobs to fake cinema screenings. Flowers, musicians, whatever the client wants, they can almost always get. But the romance of the city itself is the clincher. For most of those who pop the question in Paris, just being there with their beloved is enough.

            Planning a special trip for an engagement? Or perhaps you’re already past that and thinking about a destination wedding? We’ve helped couples with romantic getaways all over the world. Give us a call!


 

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